Nothing Lasts Forever

I've been away from this blog for far too long! As always I will blame procrastination and not myself :-)

It's rather unfortunate that death has directed me back to this blog. Two days ago I lost a friend and a father. My friend from secondary school passed away after suffering a sickle cell crises and my great country lost our leader and father through a short illness. Although these are very sad developments, I am filled with joy at the outcome. It's rather unfortunate that it takes such horrible circumstances for people to appreciate the important things in life. My great nation has been united in grief after this tragic and very sudden death of our president, Prof. John Evans Atta Mills. As someone who was sick and tired of the juvenile political antics of the major political parties in the country, I am pleasantly surprised at the maturity that has been shown at this time. People have desisted from making the death of the president political and those who have tried have been quickly dressed down. Political parties and their supporters are working hand in hand to keep a sense of calm and stability. It's so refreshing and surprising to see this; however, I wonder why political parties do not work together on important issues of concern to the average Ghanaian. I guess tragedy does make people stop and think about their actions. 

The death of my friend has caused me to pause and think about life and it's brevity.  At least the late president lived his life to a lovely age of 68 but my friend was just 24. Twenty four and just starting life, early twenties; the time when most young people are coming into their own, making grown up decisions, starting to understand life, contributing to their community and just living their lives. The saying life is short is cliche but certainly apt. The sudden and tragic demise of these two amazing people is testimony to the fact that our time here on earth is limited and at time any of us can be told to "Stop work, and come home." Imagine all their dreams and aspirations that have died with them. We must enjoy our lives and the lives of the people we love and who love us; pursue excellence in everything, abhor mediocrity. Really, what do we lose even if we fail at something? Nothing! Our egos will be bruised, yes, but we also gain pride in knowing we tried and can look forward to the next day which will bring an opportunity to try again.  

My condolences to the bereaved family and friends. I pray for comfort and strength during this very difficult time. 

Nothing Lasts Forever; YOLO.